If you are in a relationship with a partner who is abusive or controlling, the health and well-being of your children can also be affected.  Studies show that children growing up in abusive homes experience more learning and behavior problems, sleep disorders, drug and alcohol abuse, and other health problems.  If you are concerned about your children:

• Let them know the abuse is not their fault.
  
  
• Listen when they want to talk about their feelings and experiences.
  
  
• Talk to your pediatrician if your child shows behaviors that concern you.
  
  
• Talk to an Advocate for more information and additional resources.

Statistics

• Children exposed to battering are six times more likely to attempt suicide and 50% more likely to abuse drugs or alcohol. Studies show they experience more health problems and learning disabilities.  Later, they may carry on the cycle of abuse.
  
  
• 50% of men who frequently assault their wives also frequently abuse their children.
  
  
• Women who are physically or sexually abused during pregnancy are more likely to miscarry, to have low-birth weight babies, or to delay seeking prenatal care.